Serious ex partner problems u got to help with this is she pyscho i cant work her out ?

She is too on off again for my liking. She goes from one extreme to another. What kind of a marriage would you have if you got serious with her. You wouldn't know from one minute to the next what kind of a mood she's going to be in. No one needs a life of that sort. She's playing games with you & I wouldn't want to get involved with her. I would put her on the back burner & go forward with my life if I were you. Who needs to be yanked back & forth from one day to another. Best just to not get caught up in all her confusion. Find yourself someone who is decent, someone who will treat you as you should be treated on a daily basis & do NOT let her come between any relationship you may just get involved in in the future. The less she knows about your life, the better off you'll be. Hopefully you'll find someone who is perfect for you & you can get her to stay out of your life. Don't "allow" her to ruin something good for you. Again, you deserve happiness, go for it & the best to you.^